"LAFAZ BUKAN MAINAN"

"Lafaz Bukan Mainan" sebuah drama melayu yang i tengok hari ni (jumaat) kat TV2. It was really a great drama by eurofine picture sdn. bhd. mengisahkan seorang lelaki yang bernama Haikal yang jahil tentang hukum hakam agama... dia sering malafazkan talak bila bergurau dengan isterinya... katanya, talak itu tidak jatuh kerana dia berniat bermain-main sahaja.... pada satu hari, di tepi pantai, dia bergurau dengan isterinya dan dia melafazkan talak. 'aku ceraikan kau. kau nak talak berapa?' isteri nya dengan jahil nya pun menjawab 'abang nak bagi berapa?' haikal pun menjawab '10 cukup?' dan mereka terus ketawa senang hati tanpa memikirkan impaknya mainan itu pada kehidupan mereka... setelah ditegur oleh rakan, mereka kembali ke tempat asal dan bertanya kepada ibu dan ayah mereka... dan akhirnya, bapa mertua haikal memberitahu bahawa, talak 3 telah jatuh kepada rita, isteri haikal. haikal bermati-matian mempertahankan bahawa dia tidak berniat dan sekadar berjenaka... namun, apakan daya, talak itu telah jatuh... seperti yang kita tahu, apabila talak tiga itu jatuh, maka suami dan isteri itu tidak boleh rujuk semula... tapi mereka boleh berkahwin semula apabila isteri tersebut berkahwin lain dan diceraikan oleh suami barunya... dan jika dia hendak merujuk semula kepada bekas suami pertama, maka mereka dibenarkan kembali bersama dengan berkahwin semula dan bukan rujuk... di sinilah timbul konsep cina buta... bila mana si suami pertama akan mencari lelaki lain yang sanggup menikahi isterinya dan menceraikannya dan membolehkan dia dan isterinya kembali bersama... i baru tahu bahawa hukum cina buta itu adalah haram dan orang yang mengamalkan konsep cina buta itu akan dilaknat Allah... dan i baru tahu rupanya konsep cina buta itu banyak diamalkan oleh masyarakat kita... MASYAALLAH... betapa jahilnya kita sebagai manusia... Untuk dikongsi bersama :
3 perkara yang dalam keadaan apa sekali pun akan tetap terjadi (sama ada dalam keadaan bergurau, serius, melawak, sindiran, tidak terniat, atau seumpama yang berkaitan..) :
1) nikah dan kahwin
2) talak
3) rujuk
apapun, drama "lafaz bukan mainan" ni memang sangat padat isinya dan memberi pengajaran kepada kita terutama yang beragama islam... tapi satu yang membuat i tersenyum adalah kata dari salah seorang pelakon dari drama itu, Ebi Kornellis yang merupakan bekas pelajar af... "Orang Sabah telah lama menerima orang semenanjung.." menunjukkan betapa Sabah dan Sarawak sangat mulia hati mereka apabila menerima orang semenanjung... tak seperti orang semenanjung yang asyik menolak Sabah dan Sarawak... Mencaci mereka... dan menganggap mereka sangat kuno berbanding yang di semenanjung... sesungguhnya, bukakanlah hati dan minda anda.... kita semua dilahirkan sama sahaja disisi-Nya... hanya amal dan taqwa sahaja membezakan kita...
MORAL OF THE STORY :
1) dalami dan pelajarilah hukum hakam agama... sekurang-kurangnya tahu mengenai asas agama Islam... Islam itu indah..
2) jadilah insan berilmu dan jangan jadi manusia yang jahil... ILMU ITU ADALAH PELITA HIDUP..
3) untuk bakal isteri, carilah calon suami yang boleh membimbing anda ke jalan yang diredhai-Nya... seorang suami yang boleh membawa rumah tangga anda menjadi Jannatul Baiti dan tidak bermain-main dengan talak yang berkuasa di dalam genggamannya...
4) terimalah insan lain seadanya kerana kita semua sama sahaja di sisi-Nya... hanya amal dan taqwa membezakan kita...
5) blog ini sekadar untuk berkongsi ilmu, luahan rasa...bukan untuk menghina dan membabitkan sesiapa... seandainya ada yang terasa, ampun dan maaf dipinta... tidak terniat untuk menyakiti hati sesiapa..

renungi dan fikirkan... Wallauhalam...

cooking~

hari ni kena tegur lagi ngan ma sal 'my cooking'... hahha... its was funny but i think i should start think serious bout it.. huhu..
tadi i nak cepat coz dah janji ngan member nak g bank untuk urusan PERKA.... so, i masukkan nuggets dalam kuali wif cooking oil n start to left it for a while... then, i pun bersiap lar... ter'khayal' kejap, tak sedar sal nugget yang digoreng.. kah kah kah... so, it burn out... malu dowh!!! goreng nugget yang leh consider as basic skill pun dah fail.. camana??? then, when my mum come back from work and she open the 'tudung sarang', she was really shocked to hell.. hahha.. ma ckp, "its must be u the one who cooked this, rite?"... i sengih je lah... then, my mum say, "lau calon mertua tengok neh, kena reject terus. Mana taknya, goreng naget yang simple macam ni pun leh hangus..".. then i leh slumber jawab "ala, ilek ar ma... t me n future husband jumpa mertua kat luar.. so takyah ma mertua tgk my 'skill' masak tue.." then, ma geleng kepala jek... but, come to think it, betul gak kan??? cam memalukan jek.. belum masak yang berat2 lagi.. baru yang simple macam tue dah fail... moral of the story is :
1) ladies should learn how to cook >.<
2) don't 'khayal' when u r cooking something... otherwise it will be burning... hahah..
3) search for ma mertua yang sempoi n slumber... so that u masak camana pun, makan kat luar ke, dia orait jek.. hahah...

Who am i to you?

Who am i to you? Siapa saya pada diri awak? Hmm, sometimes this easy question are hard to find for the answer....
who am i to u? just a friend? a classmate? a schoolmate? a girlfriend? a member? a bestfriend? no one can answer that ques except u urself... huhu.. dont put much hope on the answer that is going to be told to u coz it might not be like what u want it to be...
its hurt u the most when u expect something else, than it goes around in something else... so, think before u answer... becoz we might hurt persons around us with our answer...

think about it and selamat beramal..

xoxo

back to the basic ~

finally, i safely reached my beloved hometown, kuching after few circumstances... huhu... very glad to be at my own hometown n at my home sweet home...

we ( my family n i ) are supposed to be on the 11.40 am flight from kl to kuching... we reached klia at 1045am if im not mistaked n try to check in... then the machine says that our flight time is due... so we went to the counter and ask about it... the crew says that our flight had limited and ask us to go for another counter.... so, we went there and ask about our flight. Then the crew said we are late. The flight had boarded... then, i asked him why? we can still run to the gate n go for the flight since we should be boarding at 11.30. the he said that the gate is closed and the plane has boarded.. can u imagine how cruel they are?? huhu... but then, he gave us 3.15pm direct flight to Kuching without paying any fees... glad to hear that, so my mum just agre with him.. then, my mum asked how about earlier flight, maybe at 2 pm? the he said that flight was overbooked same as the 11.40 flight. they are really thinking bout money!!! how can the let the flight to be overbooked??? hello...!!~ but what ever it is, my mum had agree to take the 3.15 flight and we go for check in... then, we 'lepak-lepak' at kfc... me starting to 'fb'ing n my families go 'measuring' the klia.. hehhe... almost 2.15pm, we proceed to our gate at B6... after waiting quite a while outside the gate, we are then release to sit inside... but 3 o'clock, there are still no annoucement for us to go into the plane... 3.05 pm, they've made an annoucement saying that the flight is delayed due to operation problems and we will be flying at 5 pm... that time everybody was upset n unhappy...4.30 pm they've made an annoucement for the passenger to start going into the plane <> for almost 5.15pm, the plane start to move...

so then, we safely reach Kuching International Airport at 6.45 pm... we had our breaking fast with just eating the sweets and we are still excited to see families... after grabbing our luggage, we are then go towards family that had been waiting for a while outside the arrivals...

this is my second time 'balik kampung'... last year i felt like crying after i saw a lot of plate starting with 'Q' around me n hearing all those people talking in our language... but this year, i don't feel like crying anymore but still felt a little bit 'terharu'.... n of course i feel glad to be at my own hometown...

then, i safely reach my homie at 7++ pm... really glad to be at my own home... dunno how to describe it but really feel good to be here at my owh home sweet home... =)

what ever it is, 'back to basic' is the best feeling ever!!~ glad to be home... yeay!!!~

1st Day Of Ramadhan =)

Salam....

this is my first entry for my new blog... and it was in the first day of month of honour, Ramadhan Al-Mubarak... =)

Don't really know what to write in my first entry... heheh...

Today, i am still not use to fasting... huhu... getting hungry at 1 pm but luckily i remembered that i am fasting... huhuh... but i'll get use to it sooner...

I've miss my 'terawih' for 2 days... so sad thinking of it... huhu... hope that i can get the chance soon....

doesn't go for any Ramadhan Bazaar today... huhu... Miss the bazaar at my hometown, Satok and also Gita... huhu...

Mm, i think this is it for now... till later, SELAMAT BERPUASA... =)